I credit Lundy Bancroft’s book Why Does He Do That? Inside the Minds of Angry, Controlling Men with saving my life. Its the first book I read when I was trying to understand what was going on in my life. My head was spinning and I wasn’t yet seriously thinking about how to get out, just how to survive. After reading this book it became clear to me that I deserved to get out, I needed to get out in order to survive. Today I discovered Lundy’s blog and this post is so spot on that I have to share it here.